What are effective strategies for bickering couples to improve communication and reduce conflicts?

By Brian Calley

Structured dialogue: Uninterrupted speaking time prevents escalation.

Reflect before responding: ""So you're saying..."" ensures understanding vs. preparing rebuttals.

Time-outs: Pause when heated, return when calm.

Ground rules: No name-calling, no past issues. Stay on topic.

Professional help: Therapist teaches communication techniques in neutral environment.

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Brian Calley - Couples Therapist

Brian is a licensed couples therapist with expertise in evidence-based relationship interventions. He specializes in helping couples develop stronger communication patterns and navigate relationship challenges through scientifically-proven methods.

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