How Effective Is It?
Success Rates:
- Around 70 to 80 percent of couples see significant improvements in relationship satisfaction and closeness
- Results are long-lasting, with most couples maintaining progress for months or even years
- Statistically more effective than many individual therapies and psychiatric medications used for relationship-related issues
What It Improves
- Couples report stronger emotional bonds and more satisfying sex lives
- Clear drop in toxic conflict patterns like criticism, defensiveness, contempt, and stonewalling
- Better communication habits and emotional regulation
- Improved family dynamics and stronger co-parenting
What It Works For
This method helps with a wide range of problems:
- Affairs and trust breaches
- Constant arguing or emotional shutdown
- Sexual disconnect
- Parenting tension
- Situational domestic conflict where physical safety exists
It also works across different racial, economic, and cultural backgrounds.
What’s Involved
Assessment:
2 to 3 sessions using interviews and questionnaires to map strengths and problem areas
Core Therapy:
Usually 12 to 20 weekly sessions, each lasting 60 to 90 minutes
Follow-Up:
Some couples do occasional check-ins to stay on track
What Makes It Different
- Uses the ""Sound Relationship House"" model with a focus on trust, shared meaning, and managing conflict
- Teaches couples how to spot and respond to emotional bids and make successful repair attempts
- Builds key skills in communication, problem-solving, and emotional regulation
- Promotes a 5:1 ratio of positive to negative interactions, a key predictor of success
